Word of the day

subtilize \SUHT-l-ahyz\ , verb;
1.
To make (the mind, senses, etc.) keen or discerning.
2.
To elevate in character.
3.
To make thin, rare, or more fluid or volatile; refine.

"Shoot out "

Wooow..... So im sitting in the dark jamming to my music and my mom creeps up on me talking about some movie that I didn't care about. Then she starts locking up the house and noticed that there were two cop cars sitting out side. Well of course, my mother and I had to be nosey. We go over to the neighbors house to see what all the commotion was about. Find out one of our neighbors was about to pull a gun out on some one in the neighborhood. I had no clue that the people in our little neighborhood had fire arms ready to lock, load, aim and shoot lol.

Does complexion really matter?

I just touched back down in Minnesnowsta from the Chi. What an experience man. I gotta say Chicago hasn't changed since the last time I visited. I call that city the land of ignorance. lol BUT!!! That's not the topic of today's discussion. Today I want to talk about skin complexion. Now, when I was younger I always use to get teased about my skin color. The dudes at my high school use to say "man why you gotta be so dark". Meaning they would date me if my skin complexion wasn't so dark. I never understood their perception of girls that were just a shade darker than their own complexion. I stopped trying to understand and just moved on. Then not to long ago, this same issue came up again when my friend who was looking at my picture on Facebook. This is how the conversation went between her and a middle school friend of mine.

Friend: Awww jnae looks pretty in this picture.

Middle school friend: Yea jnae is pretty for a dark skin girl

Friend: No she's just pretty. It doesn't matter if she was dark or light

Middle school friend: yea i guess

Then when me and one of my close friends from the chi were having a text message conversation, he made a similar comment. He told me you know you are gorgeous for a dark skin girl. After he said that, I had to ask what he meant by that. Everybody made it seem like dark skin girls were just hideous. He replied most dark skin girls just got body and that's it. I was so shocked at his response. I wonder is this how most northern guys think about Dark skin females because I know guys down in south love them some dark skin girls. You would think people were over what color complexion makes you look pretty.


Does complexion really play a huge part in your decision on which girl you want to date?

Does complexion really matter?

I just touched back down in Minnesnowsta from the Chi. What an experience man. I gotta say Chicago hasn't changed since the last time I visited. I call that city the land of ignorance. lol BUT!!! That's not the topic of today's discussion. Today I want to talk about skin complexion. Now, when I was younger I always use to get teased about my skin color. The dudes at my high school use to say "man why you gotta be so dark". Meaning they would date me if my skin complexion wasn't so dark. I never understood their perception of girls that were just a shade darker than their own complexion. I stopped trying to understand and just moved on. Then not to long ago, this same issue came up again when my friend who was looking at my picture on Facebook. This is how the conversation went between her and a middle school friend of mine.

Friend: Awww jnae looks pretty in this picture.

Middle school friend: Yea jnae is pretty for a dark skin girl

Friend: No she's just pretty. It doesn't matter if she was dark or light

Middle school friend: yea i guess

Then when me and one of my close friends from the chi were having a text message conversation, he made a similar comment. He told me you know you are gorgeous for a dark skin girl. After he said that, I had to ask what he meant by that. Everybody made it seem like dark skin girls were just hideous. He replied most dark skin girls just got body and that's it. I was so shocked at his response. I wonder is this how most northern guys think about Dark skin females because I know guys down in south love them some dark skin girls. You would think people were over what color complexion makes you look pretty.


Does complexion really play a huge part in your decision on which girl you want to date?

The Trey songz incident

So I was talking on the phone to my little brother and he told me that Trey Songz kissed a 15 year old girl at his concert. I know that kissing him is every woman's dream. I was in shock when my brother told me this lurid information. He said it was all over the radio in Chicago. I just hope that the mom doesn't press charges against him, you know black people and money equals greed.



By the way this happened about three months ago.

Word of the day

So, for weeks I been thinking of ways I could widen my vocabulary. Of course I can read. Then I thought about how I can incorporate my blog into widen my vocabulary too. So I came up with this, im going to pick a word everyday that I don't know and blog about it . Then all the blogs that I right for that day I have to somehow incorporate that word into that blog. I figured if I use the word more it would reduce my chances of forgetting the word and it's meaning.



So today's word is Lurid.

Lurid:gruesome; horrible; revolting: the lurid details of an accident.
2.
glaringly vivid or sensational; shocking: the lurid tales of pulp magazines.
3.
terrible in intensity, fierce passion, or unrestraint: lurid crimes.
4.
lighted or shining with an unnatural, fiery glow; wildly or garishly red: a lurid sunset.

This word would explain the pain I felt 2 days ago after I worked out. The work out that I did was so lurid, that even after I stretched out I was still in pain. It was worth it. It helped me maintain my pulchritudinous figure.

Time lost with the family

Wow I can't believe that im not going to Chicago for our family reunion. This will be the first family reunion that my mom, uncle and me are going to miss. I haven't seen any of my family members or my dad since last summer and probably wont' see them for a while due to school. My mom's indecisive decision lead us to this disastrous conclusion. As I sit here mad at the situation, my home girl calls me and offers me a better proposition. She asked me if I wanted to go to Club New York, which is suppose to be poppin on firdays. Without hesitation, I gladly excepted. I figured going out will occupy my time but it won't replace the time that I lost with my family . Hopefully I can still have a good fourth of July weekend.=/