Never let your guard down

I went to friend of a friends 21 bday party... so you know of course every body was drinking since the bday girl was legally able to drink. As i was sitting at the table wit my home girl and the bday girl's grandpa. I already knew he had a few sips cuz this oooolldddd asss man had the nerve to ask me for my number while his wife was Standing 10 feet away. I was so shocked and couldn't believe my ears. I mean the man was just talking to us about not trusting anything that has a mind and here he is tryna get my number smh. He repeatedly just kept saying "you a million dollar baby. You aint got no kids, ya single and you beautiful". but besides the point that he was tryna holla at me, he had a good point about not trusting anything with mind of it's own.

Anything with a mind can manipulate you, try to control you,and ravage your thoughts. When the grandpa pulled that slick move trying to get my number, that showed me right there that you really can't even trust someone you love because the ones that are close to you know u, and understand the way you think. So they can manipulate you and make you think other wise. It's so weird because it kinda happened to me numerous times in relationships especially with my first.I had been talking to my first from 8th grade till maybe my junior year of high school. Now back then i was super young and dumb cuz my mom didn't let me go no where. Me and the street life of a kid were as far apart as cali is from florida. I was clueless. I was just feeding off of all his lies and it was like i already knew that he was cheating.I didn't care though because he told me one thing and i believed him but he was doing the total opposite of what he was telling me . Over the years i have progressed and kinda understand the make species more. I feel the more I hang around them the more i understand the ways they think, which can def. help me in the long run. Most guys are simple. So most think the same, act the same and want the same things. There very competitive. So if they see something they like they're going to go out their way to get it and make sure it's better . Main point is never let your guard down. When you let your guard down your letting a person find your weakness. Weakness = vulnerability