Respect, Love, and Trust

After reading Tiary's blog, I found most of them to be self relating. The blog that I really enjoyed, was the blog titled The Essence of Love. She primarily talked about how she wants to try to respect, love and trust herself before she allows her self to do the same to a significant other. I think every girl at some point wants to accomplish these things before they begin a relationship. But the question is how many girls actually take the time to do this before a relationship? From what I have observed, experienced and have been told most females tend to realize that they need to respect, love and trust their self after they have been hurt, beat, cheated on, used only for sex or money, lied to consistently etc. If you respected, loved and trusted your self you wouldn’t let some one who told you they loved you treat you like you’re worth nothing. If you took the time to understand your self, then you would avoid situations that end in regret.
So a ladies love, respect, and trust your selves before trying to do the same for a man; it’s only lowering your self esteem.
Self esteem is the key to confidence and is also the key to helping you love, trust and respect yourself.